Did The Twin Flame Journey "Happen" To Me?
There is a lesson that you have to accept in order to experience real progress and sustained success on your Twin Flame Journey. Quite directly, that lesson is that you are not a victim of your reality; rather, you are a powerful creator of your reality.
I bring this up because many people look at the Twin Flame Journey as something that has happened to them, rather than something they have consciously or unconsciously called in. In another blog, we can delve into how you call in the Twin Flame Journey, but for now, we're going to focus on the fact that your vibration shapes your experience of your reality. You vibration - consciousness - has chosen the Twin Flame Journey and you can choose to continue or discontinue it. However at some point, you chose to - at the very least - explore Twin Flames.
It's key to understand this because if you choose to experience the Twin Flame Journey as a struggle imposed upon you -something that has happened to you and is inescapable- you won't move forward. When your Twin Flame mirrors deep hurts and intense triggers to you, instead of moving through them, you'll resist and blame your Twin Flame because you’re operating consciously or unconsciously on the patter of victimhood or helplessness. Those things will never bring you deeper into love.
However, when you take ownership of your experience and your reality, you go within and love yourself in the places that are hurting. This power is incredible because when you love yourself in those places and intentionally create with love, you open yourself up to deep levels of peace, love, and abundance.
Your Twin Flame knows the Divine You, and you are Divine at your core, but you must choose to accept it. Part of accepting your Divinity is recognizing your power in your reality. Your Divinity and power is the truth of who you are. Realize that no one can force you to struggle. You get to choose to have Love in your life, choose to heal the wounded places within you, and choose to have your Twin Flame Harmonious Union.
However, if you continue to hold onto the belief that the Twin Flame Journey has merely "happened to you," you'll never attain these things because you'll be living from a disempowered place. When you come together and meet your Twin Flame in Love, remember that Love is powerful. Love recognizes your Divinity. Love does not see you as weak or helpless. Love has compassion for you and your challenges. Love knows that you are strong, stronger than separation, stronger than ego. At the core, Love compassionately calls you to respect your Divinity by releasing victimhood and valuing peace over misery.
When you make this choice, when you embrace that you are responsible for your reality, you are truly living from your own Divinity. You exist in a vibration where you can sustain your Twin Flame Harmonious Union.
