Twin Flames - What You Can't Avoid
Many of us who are on or have heard about the Twin Flame Journey acknowledge that our Twin Flame, and this journey, trigger us intensely. One of the reasons this occurs is because being with your Twin Flame, or even desiring to be with them, means wanting to be with all aspects of yourself. To desire your Twin Flame is to desire the entirety of your being.
Now, let's establish a couple of premises for this article.
You are an eternal, infinite being.
At the very core of who you are, you are Love.
When you call in your Twin Flame and choose to be in union with them, you're opting for a union with your true self, with all the love that resides within you. This love is rich, deep, infinite, and eternal. However, because you are calling in your Twin Flame, they reveal the places within you where you are not aligned with love. Similarly, you mirror this process for them. It's a reciprocal exchange, however this article focuses on our individual journey because you have the power to create in your reality.
Here's a secret that may not be known to everyone: coming into alignment with your true self and the love within you at your core is the act of ascension. Your Twin Flame journey is inherently an ascension journey. If you avoid this aspect of ascension, if you don't delve deeper into love and surrender into unconditional self-love, you may encounter difficulties in sustaining a relationship with your Twin Flame. If you have an unhealthy relationship with yourself, marked by self-rejection and a lack of self-love, it will inevitably manifest in an unhealthy relationship with your Twin Flame. They are inextricably intertwined with you.
Now, let's ask some challenging questions. If you don't genuinely desire ascension, if you don't want to explore uncharted territories and unconditionally love yourself in ways you may never have before, then you might not truly desire your Twin Flame. The purpose of this relationship is for both of you to grow eternally, to ascend together, and to create beyond ascension together. If these aren't your goals, perhaps the Twin Flame Journey isn't what you need at this moment. It's not my personal recommendation, but it's essential to be self-aware here. Are you committed to yourself? Are you committed to deep self-love? If you are, then the Twin Flame journey is where you should be, as they are the only ones who can partner with you and guide you in deepening your self-love and self-expression at your core. No other person can fulfill this role, making your relationship precious and sacred.
Even if you have built walls around yourself, deep down, you desire love, fulfillment, and self-love. Who wouldn't logically desire this? If someone claims otherwise, they are masking their pain and need compassion. Follow the desire for love within you, nurture it, and explore it. You don't have to rush into the Twin Flame Journey, but it's okay to acknowledge that the truth within your heart is calling for it. Embrace it, walk with it, walk with others, but most importantly, walk with yourself on your Twin Flame journey. Honor the love your heart truly desires.